Depression

Depression is a serious and common and serious medical illness which negatively affects on a person. It causes feelings of sadness and loss of interest in activities once enjoyed. It can lead to a variety of emotional and physical problems due to avoidance of family members and special friends. It can decrease confidence of a person.

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Now a days, the race for earning money, competitive and board examinations in all over the world which creates stress and result depression. Depression is also caused by several reasons such as family problems, problem in marriage life, boy friend girl friend relationship and many more reasons. Unemployment is one of the main reasons of depression which is a silent killer. Girl friend boy friend relationship and problems in family and marriage life is also main reason for depression. When the person is depressed for a longer time then it leads to suicide attempts. If any person fail in examinations, family or marriage relationship and got a job then he goes to depression.

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I am also suffered depression for two years due to jobless. When completed my B.Tech then I hope for better job.. Then I got a job in Rudrapur worked as a production engineer. All the family members including parents are very excited for my job. Each family member was congrats me for my job. I worked in this company for three years and left due to recession which creates negative effects on my life. Then I come to home. When all the family members know about me then starts ignoring me. Not talking with me and also not invited in any family function and results I am much stressed. Then I came to know that family members not help in emergency conditions. Parent helps me in this condition. I tried my best and done several courses for getting a job. After two to three years I was fail in getting a job. Then I am suffered with depression which affects my life. I lived alone in my room and did not attend any social gathering family functions. If I visited in family functions then also feels alone because any one not interested to talk with me. The family members also insult me in the function thus I am angry and fights due to stress. That’s why I am not visited any functions. But I am tried to get job and continuous failed in interview.  During depression, the confidence of a person decreases. Friends also ignored in these conditions. I lived two to three years alone in a room due to depression, crying and thinks about suicide which is permanent solution of these problems. Only parent favored and helped me in this emergency condition.

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Due to ignorance of my family members I am not expressed to anyone. Then I started blogging which decreases my depression and increases my confidence. I started blogging in WordPress.com and made a website for my blogs. Thanks to my blogger friends which helps me to promote blogs and increases my confidence. Thus I am become freelancer and provide blogs to several clients. After that I will not talk any family member and friend but formally visited in the family functions. Now I am struggling for getting a good job.  Sometimes think about suicide but I am fighting with challenging problems. Avoidance of friends and family members are also main reason of depression during problems.

Thanks again to my blogger friends and clients for giving a work which is the main reason for increasing my confidence.

24 Comments Add yours

  1. So happy to read that you’ve come out of that state of depression and are living a normal life now. Keep blogging and never lose your self confidence again. Blessings. ❤️🌸

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    1. daneelyunus says:

      But when continuous fail in life then I am afraid of getting again depression.

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      1. You won’t. You will fight the storms bravely. 🌸

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      2. daneelyunus says:

        As we know suicide is not a permanent solution for the problems. So we fight against challenging problems but sometimes negative thinking and avoidance of friends and family members increase my depression

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      3. I can understand. I have been through that stage before.

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      4. daneelyunus says:

        R u also suffered with depression due to which reason. Then you are also suffered with pain during depression

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      5. I was left all alone. I had no friends back then because I had to take a stand for my self respect. It was a period of some one year that I struggled to get back on track with my life. But i did it. I made new friends. I also started blogging back then, wrote answers on quora. Made new blogger friends. Saw perspectives of new people and developed new hobbies. I believe sometimes we have to fall to get back up with more courage then we ever had in ourselves. Just we should never lose our self confidence and know that universe has our back always. 🌸

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      6. daneelyunus says:

        Due to avoidance of family members and friends I am alone for self respect. Just like you I am start blogging word press and quora which increases my self confidence and end my depression.

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      7. daneelyunus says:

        I am enjoyed discussion with you on this topic. In future lots of discussions with you.

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  2. Neelam says:

    I remember being depressed after my mom’s death. I was numb and couldn’t charter my life. But it’s my brother who showed so much of kindness and attention. Sometimes family members would be insensitive to us. But remember, we came to the earth alone and would leave it one day alone. So start by helping yourself.

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    1. daneelyunus says:

      Ohho really shocking and difficult life without mother. You are lucky your brother is very lucky but each person is not lucky. Only parent support me but remaining family members ignoring including my brothers when I am jobless. Now I am OK because of word press and support bloggers friends

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      1. Neelam says:

        Daneel, you’re not alone. Many parents ignore their jobless kids when they are the ones who should be supportive. I’m very familiar with the situation you’re in now. Find out your strengths and talents. You can write for publications and online tabloids. Talk to youths on depression and anxiety. Many will come forward to share their experiences. See ? I’m giving you ideas to launch seminars 😊 That’s how to provide yourself with a job 😁

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      2. daneelyunus says:

        Yes u rite when you are not in job and not earn money all the family members and friends not to interested with you. Now if you have not money no one like you including parents, and brother. Ignorance is very painful when you are not in job. If family supports then no one suffer with depression

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  3. qulip says:

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  4. qulip says:

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  5. Harry says:

    I’m so happy the blog has helped you! It’s the same for me, that’s why I started blogging

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    1. daneelyunus says:

      U rite blogging helps me for increasing confidence and prevent my depression. Thanks for reading my post

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  6. Isha says:

    Hi, would love for you to check out my blog and let me know what you think ☺️

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    1. daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for visiting my website

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  7. Merit Boms says:

    LOOKING THROUGH A GLASS https://mytmbblogtv.wordpress.com/2019/10/15/looking-through-a-glass/
    This post on my blog was inspired by my depression story. I went through depression at a little age with no one to understand me. But someway or somehow, I survived this. Please I hope you find this interesting. Please follow me too😥

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    1. daneelyunus says:

      Ok thanks for visiting my website

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      1. Merit Boms says:

        Anytime. I’m glad I did visit

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