My Painful Experience and Failures in the life

If there was a biography about you, what would the title be?

I discussed in the past blog that when I done B.tech then I got job in the top company with high salary. I worked as the Graduate Engineer Trainee (GET) in the production company. When I got a job in the best company then I was popular in my family and most family members daily called and met to me. I was very happy to get the best job.

But due to recession, I had to leave my job. When I left job then family members and friends avoided me in the difficult situations. My fiance also cheated and married with another rich male individual. No one helped me in the challenging situations. In the past difficult situations, no one called me and helped in the difficult situations. Due to avoidance of my close family members and friends, I was suffered with stress or depression for a long time.

During childhood, l love writing blogs or articles. Thus, I started career in the content writing domain. After several months, I worked as the freelance content writer in many projects. I also launched my website with large numbers of blogs. When I was free then I will write blogs for my site. I also share my pain with my best blogger family to reduce my pain. The main purpose of my life is to become the best content writer or blogger and will work in the top content writing company.

Due to the avoidance of family members and friends in the past, I live alone without any expectations from anyone. Presently, I work as the freelance content writer with many projects.

But until now, I was not become a successful content writer and not get the best job in the content writing domain. I worked hard for several years but not successful to get the best content writer job in the top company with high salary.

I am confident and hope to become successful by getting content writer job in the best company with a better salary. I also hope to become the best blogger or content writer worldwide through my website.

Thus, if there was a biography about me then the title is My Painful Experience and Failures in the life.

122 Comments Add yours

  1. Aman46's avatar V.Aaradhyaa says:

    Touched 💞

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  2. Doug Thomas's avatar Doug Thomas says:

    Bad as it is, you know who is important in your life now and who can be left out. Keep the faith! You will win.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      During the difficult situations, I know about our family members and friends are fake. Every person is alone to deal with their difficulties. Thus, I live alone happily without any expectations from family members and friends

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      1. Doug Thomas's avatar Doug Thomas says:

        There was this saying attributed to a Nantucket sea captain: “Most people don’t care for your troubles, and the rest are damn glad of them.” LOL! Some truth to that.

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      2. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

        Yes u rite, close friends and family members happy when I was in trouble or suffering from difficult situations. It’s a real truth

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      3. javaidbanday's avatar javaidbanday says:

        That is what I say and beleive

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      4. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

        Yes u rite, I work hard and may hope to become successful person

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  3. I hope you achieve your dream.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for your great support 🙏

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  4. Beyond P's avatar sophia says:

    sending some love to you. It shall be well with you.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  5. You can not define yourself with one experience. What about the beautiful experience you had in your previous job. Life is not defined by how much you earn also those who left you when you were down. They were due to leave anyway, they did not deserve you. The experience you have has made you wiser and now you are more polished. Diamonds come from dirt.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Yes u rite, every person expected from their family members and friends in the difficult situations. If family members and friends not help in the bad times then what is the use of this type of relationships

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      1. Sorry you experiencing this but it’s a growth process. People will always love you when you have but turn their backs immediately you lose what they got from you. If life was not like that we will not have homeless people. Always learn this lesson ‘ No one owes you anything but you owe yourself to be better than yesterday ‘

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      2. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

        Yes u rite, I learned lesson during the difficult situations is that never expectations from anyone including family members and friends.

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  6. Cadeegirl Gee's avatar cadeegirl says:

    You made it through all of that! You are strong, and you will keep getting stronger. I encourage you to keep pushing until you realize your dream. Grace and peace.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for your kind words and great support 🙏

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  7. MattM's avatar ChicSizzle says:

    We progress through failure in life, acknowledging that the past exists only in memory. While events have occurred, we shape our own interpretations of them. Let’s begin with positivity and then envision where we aim to be three years from now. Determine the first step towards that goal, then take the step, its always the hardest. You’ll figure everything else out along the way.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Presently, I am busy to achieve my aim alone without any expectations or help from family members and close friends. I started live with positivity and living happily alone

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    2. MJ's avatar MJ says:

      Incredibly wise advice, as we all have varied interpretations of the world around us, just as we all learn different lessons. The way we view and interpret these experiences relay themselves into the world we, as individuals, live. Great post!

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      1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

        Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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      2. MJ's avatar MJ says:

        You’re most welcome!

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  8. baritorlo's avatar baritorlo says:

    Really impressive 👏 👌 👍
    Love your content ✨ 💕 ❤
    Thanks for sharing ❤ 👍 😊

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Most welcome, thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  9. Yanur Kitchen's avatar Shahid says:

    It’s fact. When you have money then everyone loves. If you have no money, then no one will ask you.😢

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Yes u rite, if you have money then everyone including family members and friends love you so much and if you are suffering from any financial issue then everyone hate or avoid you and no one help you.

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  10. Praying for you! 🙌🙌
    Blessings.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for your great support 🙏

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  11. Justin Stanelle's avatar Justin says:

    Your journey is incredibly moving and showcases resilience in the face of adversity. The title “My Painful Experience and Failures in Life” speaks volumes about the challenges you’ve overcome and your continuous pursuit of success. It’s inspiring to see how you’ve channeled your experiences into your passion for writing and blogging, turning pain into purpose.

    Your dedication to becoming a renowned content writer and blogger, despite the obstacles, is truly admirable. Out of curiosity, what has been the most rewarding part of your journey into blogging and content writing? How do you find inspiration for your blogs, especially during tough times? Keep pursuing your dreams; your determination is bound to lead you to the success you deserve.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      I hard work to become the best blogger and content writer worldwide and hope for great opportunity in content writing projects

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  12. Maybe you can find a date through here too.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      I live happily alone without any close friends and family members

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  13. Payal Tyagi's avatar Payal Tyagi says:

    I wish you good luck and believe me, I understand every bit of your struggle. But, all I can say is keep fighting with your fears and keep honing in content writing skills. It will take some time, but you will definitely get your dream job. Don’t lose hope ever!

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      I work hard to become the best content writer but not successful and not get the good job. Thanks for your kind words and great support for me 🙏

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      1. Payal Tyagi's avatar Payal Tyagi says:

        Keep doing it and I am sure you will get it. Sometimes, the plan doesn’t work our way, but this time shall pass.

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      2. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

        I faced more struggle or difficult situations when our close relatives and friends avoided and cheated me. Thus, it takes more time to deal with bad times without any help

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      3. Payal Tyagi's avatar Payal Tyagi says:

        Something similar had happened in my family, so I know what you mean. Stay strong!

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      4. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

        Thanks for your great support 🙏

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  14. GymLife's avatar GymLife says:

    Pain makes us stronger and dont look at it as a failure but more of a lesson and learn from it and keep pushing yourself to get where you want to be.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      I feel too much pain when my best friends, brothers, and other close family members cheated and avoid me in the bad times. I feel not pain when I am not successful. But I feel more pain if our close friends or relatives avoided or cheated me in the difficult situations.

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  15. Mehr Fatim's avatar Mehr Fatim says:

    An enthusiastic learner

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  16. M -'s avatar M - says:

    Everyone can cite painful experiences and failures in their lives. EVERYONE.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      You also have painful experience in your life

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  17. noviawrites's avatar noviawrites says:

    I hope you’ll achieve your dream and don’t forget to have joy in everything you do.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for your great support and kind words 🙏

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for visiting your website and reading my post. I already followed your blog

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  19. javaidbanday's avatar javaidbanday says:

    Dear failures are not permanent in our lives subject we show consistency and will never loose hope. All will be fine in days ahead. Your blog is what I firmly believe as in materialistic world everything is money.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Yes u rite, I hope to become successful blogger or content writer worldwide

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  20. Soft-ec.in's avatar Softecsinc.in says:

    😞

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  21. MJ's avatar MJ says:

    Although your experience has shown immense pain for you, is additionally shown that you have risen above everything that’s come at you. Look at how strong you have become via your experiences. And the best thing is that by sharing your battles and victories, others gain strength to push on. I know this because that’s exactly what your post has made me realize. I’m strong, too! 🥰

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for your kind words and great support 🙏. Yes I feel more pain when our relatives and close friends avoided me in the difficult situations.

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      1. MJ's avatar MJ says:

        While your difficult situation is unknown, I can relate my family avoiding me when amnesia occurred. I don’t think they meant to be mean, they just didn’t know what to say. Now, it’s been more than thirty years. I still don’t remember most of a lost decade, my mom has passed and I don’t speak to any of the other nine except one brother, and occasionally exchange greetings on Tik Tok with another.

        I raised both of my kids alone. It was very hard. But I learned quickly who I could trust and who I could not. I even had someone steal my wedding ring from my dresser. While the lessons were painful for me, I’m glad that the negative and selfish ones left me alone—taking what they wanted. It allowed me to live a great deal of my life unaffected.

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      2. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

        You faced very difficult situations and bravely raised your kids. I appreciate your brave decision to live alone without any expectations from anyone. I learned lesson for your painful life experience. I think that when any family members do not help in the bad times then what is the use of family members in our life.

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      3. MJ's avatar MJ says:

        While it is a difficult situation to have family members who refuse to assist, these experiences may hurt my feelings, but they do make me more relentless and stronger. I certainly appreciate you reading my post, and especially responding. Thank you.

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      4. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

        Yes u rite, when our family members and friends avoided and not helped me in the bad times that may hurt also my feelings but it make me more stronger to deal with difficult situations. Thanks for your great support and reading my post

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  22. Phoenix's avatar Phoenix says:

    I feel your pain. Many of us have been there too. It is in the lowest point of life that we know who is who. When you reach the lowest point, there’s only one way to go… up you go! and there’s only one person you can count on; yourself. Expect nothing from others and you’ll never get disappointed, however, if someone does something for you or help you in any shape or form, consider it a bonus and be grateful to have such person(s). Wishing you well.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Yes I feel more pain when my family members and friends avoided and cheated me in the difficult situations. So I live alone happily without any help or expectations from our relatives and best friends

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  23. Life is short do what you’ve done when you’re in this world don’t reat people down you

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Yes u rite, thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  24. jayessentials's avatar jayessentials says:

    A wonderful write up

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  25. spotifypremiumapks's avatar Spotify fans says:

    DANEELYUNUS, your honesty and resilience shine through in your story. Despite facing tough times and setbacks, your determination to pursue your passion for writing is truly inspiring. Keep pushing forward, and I have no doubt that your hard work will pay off. Wishing you all the best on your journey to success!

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Yes u rite, hard work may change our life with success. Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  26. NJ/'s avatar NJ/ says:

    stay strong, keep working hard.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

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  27. Have you ever considered your choice of words, such as ‘best’. Best career, best salary, best job… why best? Are you a perfectionist? In that case you will suffer. Why not just better? What’s wrong with being better rather than best? In any case, keep up the good work and stay strong!

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      but every person wants best not better. If any individual works for better not best then they did not work hard for best

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      1. I think what’s best today, may change tomorrow as there is always someone who will be better than you. This is true in science, in art, in sports, in any jobs. Don’t you think that year by year someone breaks a new record in something?

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      2. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

        The main purpose of each person to be for best not better. If any individual works hard for best then they may get better job or salary than other

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  28. MsHazyBrain's avatar MsHazyBrain says:

    You are strong from everything you’ve overcome. I hope you achieve your dream.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  29. Rossile's avatar Rossile says:

    “A confuse soul”

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      Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  30. Kayle's avatar Kayle says:

    I hope you achieve your dream👍🏻

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for your great support and kind words 🙏

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  31. Really good story experience we face in life teach us many things. Keep pushing forward. God bless.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

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  32. rfqtngl15's avatar rfqtngl15 says:

    Always try to be happy on what have been sanction for you from all mighty Allah. Allah is the best solver.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Yes u rite, thanks for visiting my website and reading my post

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  33. It’s a good experience, first job next jobless, and now trying your best, keep going. It’s inspiration story for everyone..

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for your kind words and great support 🙏

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      1. Most welcome, your story inspire me 💚

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      2. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

        Thank you so much 😊

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  34. There is hope. Ask God to help you

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  35. wp2341968's avatar wp2341968 says:

    Salut tous le monde, c’est ma première phrase ici

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

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  36. Sometimes I feel completely sad, lonely, Depressed, and I overthink.
    How do I pass through this and become better?

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Yes, I also feel very depressed that how to become successful person in our life

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  37. But I love your contents. Genuine and impressive ❤️

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

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  38. Your journey, though marked by trials and setbacks, is a testament to resilience and determination. The ups and downs you’ve faced, from the highs of landing a prestigious job to the lows of navigating personal and professional challenges, highlight the unpredictable nature of life’s path.

    It’s commendable how you’ve channeled your pain into something constructive, finding solace and purpose in writing. Your decision to pursue a career as a content writer, despite the hurdles you’ve encountered, speaks volumes about your strength and passion for storytelling.

    While the road to success may be fraught with obstacles, your unwavering optimism and perseverance are admirable. Keep pushing forward, honing your craft, and seizing opportunities as they come. Your resilience in the face of adversity will undoubtedly lead you to achieve your dreams of becoming a renowned content writer and blogger.

    Remember, your past experiences, though painful, have equipped you with the resilience and determination needed to overcome future challenges. Your story is a testament to the power of perseverance and the transformative potential of embracing one’s passions in the face of adversity. Keep writing your story, and never lose sight of the possibility for growth and success that lies ahead.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for your kind words and great support 🙏

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  39. Hi Danneelyunus,

    I read your blog. I have a nephew who was desperate to have a nursing job in Australia. If you migrate to Australia, there are so many rules and regulations that it takes a lot of work to attain. There were so many disappointments and frustrations waiting to pass the English Test and the challenges of getting a job as a Nurse. Since he’s my nephew from the Philippines, many friends and neighbors criticize him; even his father calls him dumb. Regarding finance, my husband helped and supported him while he was on a relatively skilled visa for a few months in Australia. He worked hard to be a kitchen hand in the Casino or Hotel, even a low job, but paid some money. He was with his friends to work on the farm for fruit picking. He bought a piece of land, whatever he saved. He knew he couldn’t make it. Due to his patience, he worked in the Philippines in nursing at an agency FREE with only a bonus during Christmas. I want to tell you there is hope. Where are you or your country? Please feel free to grab any small jobs if you can. At the same time, I am also a Christian writer. It’s not a shortcut and difficult, especially since my topic is not very broad. They called it dull or boring, for I don’t go for sexual romantic love stories, crimes, thrillers, or other issues aside from God or spirituality, which you can read in my blog. In 2016, I wrote “Word of God” through Amazon.com. The other one is Blessing Life. What caused me to unpublish was that I was bombarded or attacked by spammers. So, I paused until my husband and other pastors in the Hillsong Church suggested I write again. I started in 2019 and reclaimed my manuscripts or books. In 2020, my book was hacked again, and there were distractions and so on. It isn’t enjoyable. When it comes to self-publishing, the traditional ways are costly. I did it with Amazon for free. I am a retired pensioner but still cautious about the expenses involved, even if I can afford to be careful with spammers and hackers. However, there is something for you to sustain in the meantime, so why look for a minor job? At the moment, if your family loves you, they will approve of you. You prove to them that you are strong, not useless. Show to them? Your fiancee as well.

    Because of that, my nephew jilted with his fiancee and put off the wedding plan. You know what? He got a lovely wife he met from his voluntary job. After working for free, he was promoted to Manager and is now working online connected from the U.S.A. related to his nursing course.

    So, make your experiences as your main motive for you being a writer. They will learn a lesson thay you’re tough and resourceful. It will give you inspiration to do well. Come on. Show us.

    In my case, all my test become my testimony and my mess become a message. It’s good you are part of WordPress as a hub as you know social media is a must as I learned later-Now.

    When you read my e-books or books although it’s spiritual books but there are many things to learn. I may post a blog now about Picture Your Dreams Turn Into Reality in a minute. You read it it’s free.

    What do you think readers. Any thing you want to help this guy. We all have to start from the bottom before the top.

    Roselyn Van Dyk

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

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      1. You are welcome. You doing well mate.

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