I learned the last thing from our life experiences is that do not expect from anyone either family members or friends especially in the difficult situations. No one help you in the bad times.

If you want to more happy then you can help your family members and friends but not expect that will help you in the future life. When you can expect from anyone and they do not help you then you feel very pain and sad.

You cannot blindly trust anyone either family members and friends because when they cheat or hurt you then you feel more more sad and pain. You can always deal with your problems alone without any help from anyone.

You cannot visit on those gathering parties or celebration or marriage ceremony or family gathering parties where you are not respected from most individuals either family members or friends. You can get job with your own hard work without any help from anyone.

If you can done all these things then you will always happy in the future life.