Selfish People

What do you complain about the most?

When I got a job in the past years then most of the family members and friends talk with me and also invite in social or family gatherings. Most family members and friends called me about my well being when I got a good job in the big company.

But due to recession, I left my job and suffering from several difficulties then no one called and avoid me. I could not understand why everyone avoided me in this difficult situations. No one helped me in this challenging time. When I was jobless then my fiance also cheated and married with another rich male individual. It is better to live bachelor or alone without any female partner.

I was very sad and depressed as fiance, close friends and family members avoided me in this difficult situations. I cried alone and also suffered from depression for a long time. After some time, I realized that I had lost my job that’s why people including family members and friends avoiding me during the difficult situation. I think that most close relatives and friends are selfish and not help in any emergency conditions.

I also think that what is the use of family members and friends if they are not there to help you in case of any problem or issue in the life. It is better to live alone and not expecting in the future. Since I live alone and not expect anything from anyone.

I have learned from this painful experience that just trust yourself and do not have expectations from anyone including family members and best friends.

Thus, I complaint those selfish individuals including family members and friends who avoided me in the difficult situations.

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  1. Kevin's avatar Kevin says:

    I consider myself very fortunate that during my recent job loss my friends and family have been very supportive and concerned for my well-being. It’s unfortunate that so many people feel the need to act that way. If we all cared about our fellow humans just a little bit more, the world would be a far better place.

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      You are very lucky person that your family members and friends support or help you in your difficult situations

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      1. Kevin's avatar Kevin says:

        Thank you. Yes, I am very lucky and grateful.
        That said, I have had people turn on me after unfortunate circumstances, so I understand how you feel.

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      2. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

        Yes u rite, thanks for your great support

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  2. I pray you find kind family members and friends who will be available to you in both good and difficult times.

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  3. That is the way of the world… You rejoice together but suffer alone. Hope you have been able to tide over all the difficulties with your inner strength alone.

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  4. PradP's avatar PradP says:

    Let go of everything thats brings your vibration down.create good things for yourself.visualize in present,things wll turn into your favour

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for your great support 🙏

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  6. Abid Fakir's avatar Abid Fakir says:

    May allaha help u

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  7. Indeed selfish people can stab you in the back at the lowest point of your life

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Yes u rite, when you are in difficulty or trouble then you know who are selfish people including family members and friends

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  8. baritorlo's avatar baritorlo says:

    ❤❤❤❤

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  9. Nubela's avatar Nubela says:

    Sorry for what you’ve e been and thanks God for your family who supported you. When those who left come back, forgive them and love them from afar. They don’t belong to your inner circle. Those who left my life in though time are currently reappearing but I say all good but no grudges but let’s stop here. God is too good for toxicity in our lives🤭

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Yes u rite, I forgive those who did not help me in the difficult situations and move forward to the life

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  10. Mumnonymous's avatar Mumnonymous says:

    Having other people in our lives is a huge responsibility, most people can’t handle the negative effects of life. Be strong my friend. Though the support and love seems to dwindle, you have your own moral compass, only allow good people have an opinion. Everyone else is surplus XxX

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    1. daneelyunus's avatar daneelyunus says:

      Thanks for your kind words and great support me 🙏

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      1. Mumnonymous's avatar Mumnonymous says:

        No problem friend. 😸 Keep strong and keep going XxX

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