Suicide
It is the act of taking one’s own life due to depression, stress and many more reasons. There are about 800,000 people died every year due to suicide in every 40 seconds in all over the world. Suicide is one the leading causes of death between the age of 15 and 29 years worldwide. It is about 79 percent suicides occur in low and middle-income countries.
At present the cases of suicide increases yearly due to some reasons such as depression, mental disorders, anxiety disorders, personality disorder and alcoholism. There are some of the suicides are impulsive act due to stress such as relationship problems, break ups, financial problems, and many more. Most of the youth are attempts suicide due to study,, love relationship, family problem, problem in marriage, unemployment, severe disease and many more. But suicide is mainly due to depression.
Depression –
It is a serious and common and serious medical illness which negatively affects on a person. It causes feelings of sadness and loss of interest in activities once enjoyed. It can lead to a variety of emotional and physical problems due to avoidance of family members and special friends. It can decrease confidence of a person.
Now a days, the race for earning money, competitive and board examinations in all over the world which creates stress and result depression. Depression is also caused by several reasons such as family problems, problem in marriage life, boy friend girl friend relationship and many more reasons. Unemployment is one of the main reasons of depression which is a silent killer. Girl friend boy friend relationship and problems in family and marriage life is also main reason for depression. When the person is depressed for a longer time then it leads to suicide attempts. If any person fail in examinations, family or marriage relationship and got a job then he goes to depression
My Story
I am also suffered depression for two years due to jobless. When completed my B.Tech then I hope for better job.. Then I got a job in Rudrapur worked as a production engineer. All the family members including parents are very excited for my job. Each family member was congrats me for my job. I worked in this company for three years and left due to recession which creates negative effects on my life. Then I come to home. When all the family members know about me then starts ignoring me. Not talking with me and also not invited in any family function and results I am feel stressed or depressed. Then I came to know that family members not help in emergency conditions.
Parent helps me in this conditions then I know that parents are a gift of God. I tried my best and done several courses for getting a job. After two to three years I was fail in getting a job. Then I am suffered with depression which affects my life. I lived alone in my room and did not attend any social gathering family functions. If I visited in family functions then also feels alone because any one not interested to talk with me. The family members also insult me in the function thus I am angry and fights due to stress. That’s why I am not visited any functions. But I am tried to get job and continuous failed in interview. During depression, the confidence of a person decreases. Friends also ignored in these conditions. I lived two to six months alone in a room due to depression and thinks about suicide. But i decided to fight challenges in my life. Only parent favored and helped me in this emergency condition.
Due to ignorance of my family members I am not expressed or not to talk anyone. When I started blogging then it reduces my depression and increases my confidence. I started blogging in WordPress.com and made a website for my blogs. Thanks to my blogger friends which helps me to promote blogs and increases my confidence. Thus I am become freelancer and provide blogs to several clients. After that I will not talk any family member and friend but formally visited in the family functions. Now I am struggling for getting a good job and continue in fail in interview. Sometimes think about suicide but I am fighting with challenging problems. Avoidance of friends and family members are also main reason of depression during problems.
Thanks again to my blogger friends and clients for giving a work which is the main reason for increasing my confidence.
Conclusion
Suicide is not a solution of this problem. Facing challenges in life is a permanent of this problem that makes a strong person.
daneelyunus 
Sad to know your part. But remember one thing if we end life we can’t change it. Take Maharana Pratap, he lost his kingdom and had to spent his life in forest. You just lost a job, you can create Jobs
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Depression is cause due to several reasons but if close family member s and close friends are avoided then it is serious problem
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Yeah..Two options are there
1. Fight
2. Surrender
Choice is on us
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Yes fight challenges is the best option but you are alone to fight
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I know friend..Sun alone is sufficient to give energy to whole universe
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Yes u rite thanks for your positive response. Thank you so much
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My best wishes friend! If you give up..You are already lost. Better try fighting and then lose
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Thank you, fight challenges that becomes a strong person
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You are very courageous Sir, keep up the good work and yes, suicide is not the solution of anything, nowadays mental health problems are increasing at alarming rates, it is becoming very important to keep ourselves calm and motivated. Take care and all the best for the future ahead
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Agree with you but you are in problem and no one help you and also avoid then it cause depression
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I can totally understand your point. Take care Sir 😊
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Most welcome , thanks for your positive response
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😊😊
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Thanks for your great support 😊😊
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sad and scary! thanks for sharing.
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Most welcome, thanks for reading my post
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serious issue in these times affecting many societies.
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Yes this problem is prevent by self confidence which helps to fight challenges in life.
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Don’t worry.
Time will solve everything.
Definitely you will get a good job.
Keep blogging. That will improvise you in all aspects.
Your followers will support and encourage you.
Soon you will get a suitable job.
My blessings and prayers are there for you.
Suicide will never give any solution.
I yoo under went such situation many times. But my children s responsibility stopped me to take that wrong decision.
Now both my children are settled in their lives. I always pray for them. Here after you’re also included in my prayers. Don’t worry.
All the best.
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Thanks for your positive response that helps me to fight challenges in our life
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So glad you found a solution. I planned my suicide many years ago when I was barely existing due to amount of pain killers I was on. What saved me was my love for my husband.
Life is full of struggles and as you say they make you strong
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Yes u rite life is full of struggles but if your close family members and close friends ignoring and mock you in emergency conditions then it creates a depression
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Thanks for letting us know your sir, I guess its human tendency that people gets to know that people did something and so can they. I would also love to be a freelancer if got right guidances, suicideis not an option indeed.
I guess this loneliness is the fact that make us think like that and when we blog and let out our views, and when people admire us. it really matters. keep blogging sir. You do a great work. 💐💐
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Earning in freelance writing is less as compared to other jobs. I have several freelancing projects but earning is very less thus it creates depression.
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but it makes us learn a lot of new things, can we ignore that chance… earning matter more, right
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Yes u rite but the comparison with other person in family and friends in pay or income then it creates tension
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So, so sad.
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Thanks for reading my post
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Of course. 🙂
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😊😊
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Nice writing .But,Why did you have decided to choose this topic?
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Because I am suffered with depression for some time that’s why I choose this topic what I feel with this situation
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OMG, now are u free?
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Yes mam I am absolutely free
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Very good.
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Thank you
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welcome
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We are all here for you, Sir! Feel free to share your thoughts with us. These are hard and compelling times for everybody. But, there’s always light at the end of the tunnel! Things will work out fine. Have hope!❤️
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Thank you so much, depression is very painful. If I have positive friends just like you then I feel encouragement to fight challenges in our life.
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Your life story is beautiful. I won’t call it sad because you found your silver line. I’m so glad you had the courage to speak up. Depression is serious and I completely understand what you have been through. Seems like a lot of his have similar reasons to blog 🙂 Tske care stay safe and may God grant you the grace, strength and wisdom to persevere in faith and hope through every moment of life. You are never alone. Be at peace …..even in the midst of hour storms. It shall pass. Its always does…..
Thank you for being an inspiration Daneelyunus…. 🙏🌈
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Thank you so much talk as a friend. I want sharing our experience with blogger friends. Really feeling of depression is very painful experience.
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Sure Daneel…
It is painful indeed….but we must focus that it always gets better….always does….have to wait for the end
..picture Abhi baaki hain…
If it’s not great yet…its not over.
Cast your burdens on the Lord….He cares for you.
Sleepwell tonight. Dont toss or turn….
Be carefree….for those moments of snooze time at least 🙏
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Thanks for your positive response, tomorrow I will concentrate on only blogging. I have several projects But in income in freelancing content writing is less this creates depression when I compared with others.
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Do your work diligently. And leave the rest to God to bless the work of your hands. He is listening and always open to prayer…
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Yes u rite we can continuously hard work and leave the rest to God. Thanks for sharing positive response that helps me in future
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🙏🌈
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😊👍
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Good and bad things happen. That’s life. Keep thinking positively, and ignore those who are mean. Insha’Allah one day your time will come.
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Yes avoiding negative people and things that are harmful for our life.
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Suicide is a sin
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During lockdown thousands of people lost their jobs and creates depression like situation with no work which is dangerous.
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The phase of lack of job and loosing job is very dangerous. And this pandemic is creating this situation. Even I am a job seeker and can understand the pain you were going through back then.
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Yes u rite in this corona phase thousands of people lost jobs and creates depression like situation.
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Thanks for sharing your experience that surely gives confidence to others
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Most welcome, thanks for reading my post
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I always read your posts, your posts are informative
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Thank you so much for your great support
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Thanks for sharing your experience on this. It’s important we keep on moving forward, letting go of the past denials and face the challenges we may face.
You are stronger than you feel you are!. Yours is to believe and act on God’s truth for you. Blessings and Jesus loves you always.
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Thank you so much for your positive comment
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You are welcome. 🙂
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Please do not ever think about taking your own life. Life is beautiful. Having had a classmate who suicided , I know the pain and regret of the people around him, who could have helped him out and shown him some more love.
I agree with the last line of your post, and hope you feel that way for the rest of your life.
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Thanks for your positive comment and reading my post
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I agree with you buddy! Depression should be taken seriously! The culture I come from does not recognize this as a problem. This disease makes you hollow from the inside and it ruptures you inside out! It leads to death….
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Yes u rite, depression is very painful experience or serious problem especially for youths. Thanks for comment and reading my post
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Agreed and giving it exposure is what makes all the difference!
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Thanks for reading my post
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Sad to hear…Every one has ups and downs in life.so take it in that spirit and move on..And be patient.Great things take time.So wait for that👍
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Yes u rite, thanks for positive comments and reading my post
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Congratulations for your fight!
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Thank you so much
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Dawn breaks and day must begin,
The night takes it’s leave.
Yet the darkness of my life,
Tightens it’s strengthening weave.
Memories race across my mind,
As the past makes its advance.
Sadness fills every corner,
Removing hopes last chance.
Routine then takes over,
Wash, eat, work, repeat.
Surely this cannot be all,
A daily living active defeat.
Deep thoughts of why we’re here,
Answers abound but never quench.
If only life would simply care,
And still the painful stench.
Sunlight flees in humble defeat,
The night arrives and day is done.
Once again my head finds it’s rest,
But peace and happiness – none.
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Nice poem
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Thanks, was having a rough week. Sometimes when there’s no one to talk with, writing thoughts out is a release. Hopefully help someone else as well.
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Yes u rite if no one to talk or avoid then I write blogs to prevent depression.
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sad to know . it’s my problem also
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During emergency conditions, no one help and avoid by family members and close friends which is the main reason of depression. R u also face depression.
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I feel lonely most of the time.
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Loniless is also the problem of depression. When I write blogs then it reduces depression.
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oh!
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When you feel loniless then you write blogs you feel better
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Sure
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R u any social media websites
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i have account on twitter , instagram but i not used.
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Ok you also use Instagram for chatting which lowers the feeling of loniless. I am also in Instagram
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ok
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Thanks for visiting my website and reading my post
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my pleasure
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Thank you for Sharing Daneelyunus! Depression is real and does cause so much suicide throughout the world. I also have suffered with depression and lost my parents to murder suicide. Me and my 6 year old daughter found them. It is a long recovery and takes a huge support system. I would love for you to read my blog (Depression through my eyes) and watch my testimonial video. I look forward to hearing more of your writings, very well written. God Bless 🙂
https://faithhopeloveandjesus.com/2020/05/08/what-depression-looked-like-from-my-eyes/
https://faithhopeloveandjesus.com/2020/05/25/my-testimony-the-short-version-via-video/
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Your life is full of sadness. If any person lost parents then no one support you including family members and close friends and resulting depression.
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My life after that WAS full of Sadness. But no more. I was saved a few years ago by God and now I try and use it to help others with depression and loss and grief. But yes for many many years my life after that was very, very dark.
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You are bravely fight with the worse conditions and depression
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Beautifully penned down
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Thanks for appreciation and reading my post
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You are most welcome
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I am utterly you didn’t give up. This was so simply put yet left the cleanest message. Thank you for sharing your experience!
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Most welcome, thanks for visiting my website and reading my post
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Hello. I am in a similar position as you
. Maybe a little worse. I wrote about it yesterday in a post, you can judge for yourself. I have written a few things on different sites because some people have told me that it helps with the negative thoughts. Is it true? Also, could you please elaborate on how you found your freelance writing work?
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If you share problem with people then it helps in reducing depression or stress and feel relax. Thus if you have problem of depression then write down on your website and share pain with viewers. I was found freelance writing work with the help of LinkedIn.
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I can’t really share this with anyone which is why I write anonymously. I did write something yesterday on my site here on WordPress. You can see it if you want but I can’t really share it with people I know.
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Yes you share your problems with Blogger friends that you know. Unknown person may be help in resolving problems which causes depression. If you share problems then it may be possible that you have got solution for your problem by discussing with several people.
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You really are brave. We really appreciate you for sharing your experience.
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Thanks for appreciation and reading my post
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Sometimes difficult time help us to find a new direction in life. Looks like your freelance work and blogging has been a positive note from the challenges you faced before. Good luck with your blog.
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Thanks for reading my post and positive or encouraging comment 😊
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You are so right. Suicide is not a solution. But for some it is a great temptation.
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But in the year 2020 the rate of suicides are rapidly increases due to Covid 19 and poor economic conditions worldwide
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