In my opinion, the arranged marriage is more successful in India. The arranged marriage is a joining of two families that always make us more responsible for the problems between couples. In arrange marriage, the families of both bride and groom investigates their backgrounds and each members in a family. Arranged marriage also more secure due to a lot of support from both bride& groom families. Everybody enjoy the arrange marriage in both families. Arrange marriage is quite attractive because two unknown person are involved for this husband and wife relationship and both families support this. Arranged marriage helps in making the understanding between husband and wife. After marriage when these couples come close to each other they start understanding each other very closely and slowly and this makes their relationship is very beautiful and their interest in their partner slowly increases day by day. This will make their marriage quite strong as compare to the love marriage.
In love marriage, girl and boy know each other previously before marriage. After marriage, they will get bored and lost the feeling of love and interest with each other. The love marriage is based on attraction, passion and not knowing about their hobbies and families backgrounds. Love marriages create tensions between two families. If the love marriage is between two different religion and caste then it creates more tensions. A love marriage couple live in a difficult situation without the support of both bride and groom families, society, and friends so it leads to increase in breakups and divorces.
My point of view is that arrange marriage is most beautiful and strong marriage which not only come two people together but also join two families together.
Well explained…and nice perspective 👍
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Thank you dear, your point of view, arrange marriage or love is successful
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This is a nice ppst.. really liked reading your point of view regarding the arrange marriage custom..
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Thank you dear and your point of view, arrange ya love marriage is successful
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We, Indians have made the marriage custom more complicated….
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So you support love marriage
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Do i have to choose one??? Because i don’t feel that is needed….
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Ok if you marry so you choose one
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Whatever the way or type of marriage is…. I don’t think that is a criteria for living a good life with your partner….
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Ok thanks for discussion, I am enjoyed the discussion with you
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I agree. Im in South Africa i had a semi arranged marriage… I say semo because i took some convincing. 😉
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If marriage with family and society support then its a simpler life as compared to love marriage
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I really like what you have written. your visual picture is very helpful!
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Thanks for appreciation and reading my post
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Thank you for explaining this so well for western readers who may be less familiar with the idea of arranged marriage, or only get it in terms of stereotypes – this really clarified it and make the cultural advantages clear. Excellent post!
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Thank you mam for appreciation and reading my post
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very interesting post, thank you for sharing
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Nice post, but I don’t completely agree with you. I think that the type of marriage, whether arranged or love, doesn’t really have much to contribute to its success. At the end it all depends upon you and your partner and the love and understanding you share.
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